I was standing in the checkout queue at Checkers, when I overheard the conversation of the two middle aged men in front of me. I didn't hear everything but what I did hear was interesting. The one man was saying his kid came home with a form that needed to be filled in asking whether their child was gay, lesbian, transexual or LGBTQ. Well this is the first time I've heard of this. By the tone of the man's voice, he didn't sound to happy about it. I must admit it is not a subject matter that is discussed openly in most families. Let me try and help you all. Firstly will a teenager easily tell his parents they are gay? I think it is one of the hardest things to do especially if the parents are old school. I can honestly say I never told my parents although my late mother did suspect something. All she said was "I still love you, no matter what". That was a surprise to me. My late father never asked but didn't say anything either. So to me the case was closed. But is it as easy as that? Some parents will disown their children and will kick them out of the house. Why would a parent do that? I've never been a parent but I would never do that to someone who is different to me? Imagine gay parents doing that and disowning their straight children. Doesn't make sense does it?
THIS IS MY LIFE.......
Change is for the better. I don't care what you think or say!
Saturday, November 19, 2022
Monday, September 20, 2021
BEING GENDERFLUID, WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
I'm not entirely sure how to approach this subject matter, but one thing I know for sure is that I feel I am on the right track. Here is what I already know: "Someone who is fluid -- also called gender fluid -- is a person whose gender identity (the gender they identify with most) is not fixed. It can change over time or from day-to-day. Fluid is a form of gender identity or gender expression, rather than a sexual orientation."
At the moment I am trying to get my hair to grow out healthily. That could take a while considering my hair is thinning on top. But help is at hand, I have started using ViGro shampoo for thinning hair. My hairdresser says it is very good shampoo, so let's see how this goes. Since starting to use it, 3 weeks down the line I can see results especially on top above my scalp. They say it should take 12 weeks to really see the results. My hair does look thicker than 2 years ago, so I definitely am doing something right! Hair should be washed every 2 to 3 days with the shampoo. Let's see the results at the end of the month.
I need to start being more feminine as I tend to still wonder what people are going to say with a transition of any sorts! Then again I shouldn't be worrying at all, as I have come this far and there is no going back! Looking for hoop earrings that are a bit heavier than what I found at MrP the other day. I need feminine or unisex tops that I can wear so I still have a lot to do.
I will update my progress as often as I can, hoping you will all understand.
Friday, August 20, 2021
I HAVE AN OBSESSION!
I've said it before and I'll say it again! "I have an obsession with growing my fingernails long!" It's nothing new, as I have been doing it for the past 20 years or so. When I was younger it was taboo for a male to have long fingernails. Well here we are and things have changed. Male make-up artists are wearing make-up and have long painted nails. In my younger days you couldn't express yourself how you wanted! Pink was for girls and blue was for boys.
I am in the process of putting together a short video, showing clips of all color polishes and nail art that I have used over the years. So watch this space. It will be available on YouTube as well. I need to start doing make-up seriously too as it gives me something new to do. Hopefully 2022 will be the year for me, as I'm starting to write more blog posts. I was neglecting my writing in the past and I used to be so good at it. I can do without a lot of things in life. Manicures, long nails and being feminine are not on that list!